Messages
are sent out by non-verbal as well
as verbal channels.
Managers
who send negative non-verbal
messages to subordinates may
wonder why
their staff seems
demoralized and
unproductive.
Messages
of lack of respect or concern can
have a major impact.
Example: Manager tells a new staff
how pleased he/she is to meet
the
person, but fails to make
eye contact.
Conflicting messages are
being sent.
Too little
eye contact can cause subordinates/
colleagues to feel they are not
reaching the
manager.
** (Beware of the impact
of cultural
differences)
Too much eye
contact (or staring) can cause
anxiety and project an overbearing manner.
** (Beware of the impact
of cultural
differences)
Actions,
movement and environment send out
signals simultaneously. It
is important that
signals sent do not misrepresent
the real
message/intent.
Examples:
Repeatedly adjusting
glasses, tugging at a
piece of hair or
clicking a pen may convey
a different
translation to an observer.
Behavioral
habits may communicate
contradictory or misleading
information.
Non-verbal
signals can create communication
barriers between managers and
their
subordinates.
This
may be counter-productive.
Examples
of counter-productive
signals:
Demonstrating
status by
keeping subordinates waiting.
Completing
another's sentences
before they have
a chance
to complete their own
thoughts.
Excessive
interruption of
discussion by accepting
phone
calls or letting other
interruptions interfere with
the discussion.
Message sent: Lack of concern
or lack of respect for subordinate(s)
Lack of
concern may be conveyed by a
pompous style or poor manners.
These
tendencies should be monitored by
managers who tend to "brow-beat"
in order
to assert control.
Non-verbal
signals can help managers
determine when to present a
disagreeable
issue or when to stay
with some conservative,
noncommittal response until
the group
has more information.
Positive, Non-verbal Influencers:
Mirror the
others' movements -- adapt similar
posture, tone of voice.
(sends an agreement message)
Deliberate
mirroring enhances support and
sends an agreement message.
Actions can
reinforce verbal communications.
A compliment
has more meaning if it is
accompanied by direct eye
contact.
(a smile or hand shake)
A person
who walks past or away without
a reply to a greeting.
Laughing
at an idea presented to a group
Yawning
while another is speaking
***
Environmental
Impacts on Communication
(Proxemics-Study of How People Use Space & Furnishings)
Non-Verbal
Messages
How an
office or conference room is organized
will affect interactions among
individuals.
Observe a
person's office/work environment
since it can greatly contribute to
understanding the individual.
Make sure
you are aware of the message
you are sending. Is it the message
you want to be sending?
Managers who
want to assert their authority
will talk with subordinates over a large,
rather than having them sit
next to the desk
or at uncluttered desk another location
that allows communicationwithout any
barriers.
Excessive
space and an overly pretentious
desk are silent messages to subordinates
or colleagues.
If you are
trying to elicit honest, candid
conversation, these non-verbal messages are
loudly giving an opposite message.
Spaces and
barriers will inhibit verbal
responses from employees.
Beware
of mixed messages (verbal and
environmental) such as:
Although employees
do not have ownership of
the space they occupy, respect should
be
shown for the territory each uses.
Using employee
space as an exit or entrance
(etc...) shows indifference to the occupant(s)
and the importance of their contribution
and position.
Also
see Brainstorming and Brainwriting
techniques.
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